
Frequently asked
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There are limited spaces for singe rooms. The venue requires a surcharge of £99.
If your attendance is dependent on having a private room, talk to us and we will see what might be possible.
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Absolutely. You can choose to partner with each other or with others for any of the exercises. There will be many invitations to switch partners for various exercises, and often also working in groups of 3 or more. You can choose what you do. You can also choose to share a room together.
You can expect any relationship issues that there may be between you to surface during the training, so it might not necessarily be an easy ride 😉
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Yes, absolutely. My work is open to people of all genders, sexualities, and relationship styles. I welcome gender diversity, and I honour the very real struggles many face in reclaiming their truth and autonomy in a world that often doesn't see or accept them.
At the same time, my approach to gender is rooted in soul-based, archetypal, and embodied inquiry. I believe that the soul is fluid—perhaps genderless, or perhaps carrying many gendered imprints from across lifetimes. I also believe the body we are born into is not a mistake, but part of our sacred curriculum. It matters. Our physical form shapes us—not just socially, but hormonally, emotionally, energetically. There are real differences between bodies, and part of our personal evolution, I believe, is to come into deeper acceptance of the body we were given, rather than reject it or seek to override its wisdom.
In my work, I use the language of feminine and masculine not as fixed gender roles or binary categories, but as archetypal energies that live within us all—energies we can dance with, heal, integrate, and balance. This language may not resonate with everyone, particularly if you hold a purely social constructivist or politicised view of gender. That’s okay.
If you are deeply attached to specific identity labels, or find it offensive to name physical differences between bodies, or to speak of feminine/masculine dynamics as energetic polarities, this may not be the right space for you. My work tends to resonate more with those who are open to fluidity, paradox, and a spiritual perspective on embodiment.
Ultimately, I invite you to bring curiosity rather than ideology. We’re not here to be politically correct—we're here to feel, to grow, and to reclaim the wild wisdom of being alive in these bodies.
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Absolutely. You can reserve your sport with a £300 deposit, then you can pay the rest in instalments spread over the time until the retreat.
There might be a limited number of discounted tickets available for the financially challenged. This is a high end venue and we are already trying to keep prices as affordable as possible without underselling our time, energy and gifts, so discounts are very limited.
Contact us to discuss your case and apply for special consideration.
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This is not possible. This is a closed container and you must be present from the beginning.
You are, of course, free to leave any time you wish, but please let us know so we can be sure you are OK, we cannot give refunds for the remainder of the course.
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In this case you would pay the same price as if you were bringing your own campervan.
We highly encourage you to join us on site as we believe the experience is much more powerful when you cook in the container together.
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All food served in Vegetarian
The venue can generally cater for vegan, gluten free, and dairy free for a surcharge of £12.90 for all 5/6 days
More specific diets may incur a fee of £27.60 for all 5/6 days.
Please let us know if you have any serious allergies.
If your diet is very specific you may have to provide your own, in which case we will work out the costs specific to your case
Message us with your specific case for more concrete information, especially if you have serious allergies.
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Photos and videos of the team may be captured for promotional purposes, but they will not include participants in any recognisable form.
There may be occasions where we wish to take an image/video of the what is happening, and in those moments we will first request consent from all who are in the room. You will have the chance to see and veto any images before they are shared publicly. You may also have your face blurred.
Outside of this, no photography is permitted during sessions.
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The facilitators will be available for one month afterwards to provide online support to help you with the integration process. We may schedule calls and check up on how everyone is doing.
This support is specifically to support integration - we will not provide free private situations that go deeper into anything that came up for you.
We will also have a group WhatsApp where you can continue to share with each other and support each other going forwards.
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This retreat is beginner friendly. It is a good option for people who are drawn to the work but don’t know where to start. We cover many tools that can help keep you safe when working with Eros as Medicine.
That being said, this retreat is not for everyone, and we would like to have a conversation with you first to asses your suitability. The main requirement is that you have a certain level of self awareness, where you are able to take challenging situations as medicine that you can learn from.
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For many people this work will help them to explore their trauma in a new and empowering way, however this is not therapy and neither of us are trauma trained. We recommend that you speak to your therapist about whether this work is suitable for you.
In some cases this work can exacerbate existing traumas and risk re-traumatisation. If you have concerns it would be best to speak with us and we can discuss your specific case.
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Our whole retreat has a boundary of no penetration for anyone, even people who come as a couple.
Facilitators will not engage in deep erotic encounters with participants, although we may lightly join in group activities or partner exercises.Beyond this we don’t feel the need to have additional boundaries for Assistants during the event.
However we do have a boundary that team members will not be involved in a romantic or sexual connection with a participant for two months after the event.
And an additional requirement that any desires or steps in that direction be communicated and reflected on transparently within the team.